It seems only natural to assume that the world revolves around you, and looks–and sounds–exactly how you expect it to. Ill-mannered children demonstrate that their worlds are permanently small, as small as their previous exposure. As a result, they alienate anything foreign. On the other hand, considerate children are willing to have their worlds enlarged:… Continue reading Teaching kids to respect people who are different from them
Kids who are not paying attention to others around them are reckless and inconsiderate. But children aware of those around them hold doors open for them and give plenty of space. These well-mannered children will be well-liked in their community and helpful to adults.
At a hotel, living in close quarters with ill-mannered children is no fun, people are trampled and bothered. But with well-mannered children being considerate of those around them, everyone can enjoy their stay.
When the ill-mannered kids come to swim, even a splash turns up the heat at the pool. But with considerate children, their good manners make the pool cool for everyone.
When the ill-mannered kids are treated to ice cream, their ingratitude spoils the experience making this an Ice Cream Nightmare for their treating friends, and the ice cream store. Not just the first ice cream dip is spoiled here. But with considerate children, their good manners make the experience an Ice Cream Dream for everyone.
Inside the friend’s house, with a self-centered focus there is no welcome on this play date. In the well-mannered alternative, the guest’s needs are put first, and true hospitality is shown.
When Mom finally gets a chance to sit down and catch up with a friend, and when Dad tries to handle an important phone call, because the children won’t stop interrupting, the call and the visit are spoiled. But well-mannered children are able to wait their turns and let their parents pleasantly and successfully attend… Continue reading Can’t Mom just have one minute with her friend!?!
When the morning rush hits an ill-mannered family bathroom, Dad gets a surprise that ruins an otherwise good morning. A good morning, however, is possible when the bathroom’s users act as if they care about the others who will come in after them.
At a party among extended family and friends, the birthday girl pursues her own perceived happiness, but ends up spoiling the party for everyone. On the other hand, the well-mannered girl is a gift to everyone present.
Dad works hard, so when Mom brings him a special treat, he should be able to enjoy it. But the grabby children polish off the gift before he can blink, much less enjoy it. In the well-mannered alternative, both Dad and the children can enjoy treats.
