Being inconsiderate means an intentional or unintentional lack of awareness of the world around us. Of course the inconsiderate children do not care about the woman who wants to join their pickleball game. The first symptom is that they don’t even care what her name is. This is their loss. On the other hand, considerate… Continue reading The proper way to welcome a new person
Social interactions can be tough. As we get older, it tends to get easier. We’ve had more practice dealing with all kinds of people in all kinds of situations. For our kids, it’s harder. They haven’t had the chance to go to as many parties, have as many friends over, or live next to as… Continue reading Solving Social Situations
At a party among extended family and friends, the birthday girl pursues her own perceived happiness, but ends up spoiling the party for everyone. On the other hand, the well-mannered girl is a gift to everyone present.
When Mom finally gets a chance to sit down and catch up with a friend, and when Dad tries to handle an important phone call, because the children won’t stop interrupting, the call and the visit are spoiled. But well-mannered children are able to wait their turns and let their parents pleasantly and successfully attend… Continue reading Can’t Mom just have one minute with her friend!?!
Leaving others out might be the popular thing to do, but many feelings are hurt and opportunities for friendships are lost when kids are mean to each other. Instead, well mannered kids are welcoming and kind to new friends, opening doors for even more fun and friends.
Inside the friend’s house, with a self-centered focus there is no welcome on this play date. In the well-mannered alternative, the guest’s needs are put first, and true hospitality is shown.
A welcoming home is tidy and ready for guests. This family leaves the place a mess and their guests are insulted, not given a warm welcome. A well-mannered family keeps their home neat and is ready to invite friends and family in at any time.
It takes two to tango. In sports and games competitors need to agree to play together before they play against each other. Considerate children can take wins and losses in stride, and the game will be more fun for all participants. On the other hand, ill-mannered children, only think about their own win or loss,… Continue reading Don’t you want to play a game with me?
